Sunday, November 27, 2016

Insulting God



November 27, 2016      Notes Not Edited
Insulting God
Mark 2:1-12, esp. v7

SIS: Empty religion is an insult to God.

Truth matters, or nothing matters at all.  Truth has become a casualty in our modern times.  The idea of “relativity,” first introduced into physics by Albert Einstein, has worked its way into every aspect of modern life.  Truth, as an absolute foundation for human understanding, has become a casualty of modern thought.

Truth matters.  It matters absolutely.  Take the word “stop” for example.  Either it means something absolutely or it means nothing.  If it means one thing for one persona and something else for another person, then one can readily see the chaos such nonsense would cause at a four-way stop.  It would lead to destruction and even death.

Truth not only matters absolutely but it matters eternally.  Take the matter of “forgiveness.”  It is through the forgiveness of God freely bestowed on all who will receive it by grace based upon the life and work of Jesus Christ that a person receives eternal life.  The truth about “forgiveness” has eternal consequences.

Truth is exclusive.  Two opposite truth claims cannot both be true.  They can both be false, but not both be true at the same time and the same way.  Aristotle codified this in his philosophy as the “Law of Non-contradiction.”  Truth is exclusive and only one claim among two or more contradictory claims can be true.

All religions of the world can be false, but not all religions can be true.  The statement, “all paths lead to heaven,” is logically equivalent to the statement, “no paths lead to heaven.” 

It is at this point of Aristotle’s Second Law of Logic, the Law of Non-contradiction, that I take issue with a recent pronouncement of Pope Francis.  Just this week Pope Francis announced that he was bestowing upon parish priests the “power to forgive the sin of abortion.” 

This is a bold statement that met with wide acceptance among both Catholics and non-Catholics alike.  It is part of the Pope’s declared Year of Mercy. 

This is not a mere exercise in semantics.  The Pope speaks for God in the Catholic Church.  Forgiveness in the Catholic Church is vested in the duties and rights of the priests, bishops, and other hierarchy of the Church.  The technical term for the idea of forgiveness requiring the intervention of a special class of priests is called, “sacerdotalism.”

Rather than get bogged down in technical discussions let us just take the Pope’s statement at face value and put it alongside what the Bible says at face value.  Let’s grant that the matter of the Pope’s statement aligns with the basic teachings of the Catholic Church that there is “no salvation outside of the Church.”  That is, Roman Catholic dogma teaches “sacerdotalism.”

The Pope in his statement declared, “All priests now have the power to forgive a woman for the sin of abortion (including all involved who are now truly repentant).

The Bible says, “Only God can forgive sins.”

These two statements are contradictory.  They cannot both be true.  No amount of wrestling with the statements or performing theological gymnastics can reconcile the contradiction.  In the Pope’s view, there must be an intermediary in addition to Christ through which God’s forgiveness flows.  In the Bible, “There is one Mediator, Christ the Lord” (1Timothy 2:5).

Why is this important?  As we said in beginning this message, “truth matters and it matters eternally.”  If the Pope’s statement is contradictory to the Bible’s teaching—and an analysis of forgiveness and salvation in Roman Catholic dogma shows it is—then the consequence for following a false path to forgiveness is to receive no forgiveness at all and be consigned to an eternal hell.

I don’t say that out of hate or meanness or to be judgmental.  I say that out of a love for every man and woman and a desire that “none would perish but all would have eternal life” (2Peter 3:9).  I do not offer this message to point out that the Pope is evil, but only that his view of forgiveness is defective, and therefore leads to grave consequences for all who would follow his path.

To be quite frank, what the Pope said is “insulting to God.”  It is saying that man knows more about God’s plan of redemption than God does.  It is insulting because it suggests that something must be added to the work of Jesus Christ on the cross to make Christ’s sacrifice effective.  The Pope’s false view of forgiveness suggests that God needs man’s help, instead of the other way around.

Let’s examine what the Bible says about forgiveness in an encounter Jesus had with a paralyzed man and a crowd of religious zealots.  This story is recorded in all three synoptic gospels.  We will read from Mark.  [READ MARK 2:1-12]

There are four aspects of forgiveness mentioned in this text that establish the biblical principle of true forgiveness.  The first aspect is in regard to the

1.  NEED for forgiveness (v3)

In verse 3 we are introduced to one of the main characters in this story, a paralyzed man:  Then they came to Him bringing a paralytic,  carried by four men.

Healing is an extremely important aspect of the earthly ministry of Jesus.  Early in Mark’s record of the life of Jesus Christ, he sets forth the broad outline of Jesus’ earthly ministry—an overview, we might say.  Look at chapter 1:32-34:

32 When  evening came, after the sun had set, they began bringing to Him all those who were sick  and those who were demon-possessed.  33 The whole town was assembled at the door, 34 and He healed  many who were sick with various diseases  and drove out  many demons.

Most people completely misunderstand the place that “healing and miracles” had in the life of Jesus.  Most people mistakenly believe that healing was primarily about making a person’s life better—that is, healing was about health.  Miracles, however, were about much more than a person’s well-being, but were more about the identity of Jesus Christ.  I’ll say more about that later on.

This matter of healing the paralytic man challenged the basic understanding of the religious leaders of the day in regard to sin and sickness.  For the Jewish leaders of that day, and for the ancients since the dawn of time, sickness was a spiritual matter—in pagan cultures a matter of falling under the disfavor of the gods.  Even for Jewish people of Jesus’ day, sickness equaled sin.  John makes this clear in his gospel in regard to a blind man.  John 9:1-2:

As He was passing by, He saw a man blind from birth. His disciples questioned Him: “Rabbi, who sinned, this man  or his parents,  that he was born blind?”

Throughout the Bible we see times when God did directly intervene to bring sickness, and even death, as a consequence of sin and rebellion.  It would be incorrect, however, to believe this is the case every time, or even most of the time.  There is not direct cause and effect relationship between sin and sickness, though as we know, sinful living has consequences in this life, including health consequences.  I’ll leave that issue for another day.

This passage is about “healing and forgiveness.”  In fact, if you look in many Bibles you will notice that the heading of this section is often like that of the Holman Christian Standard Bible:  “The Son of Man Heals and Forgives.”  Healing and forgiveness are linked in this passage because sickness and sin were linked in the minds of the people.

In regard to healing and forgiveness being linked, we can conclude that we all need forgiveness because we are all sick with sin.  Now, we may not look like we are obviously sick, as with the paralyzed man.  Some sicknesses are not outwardly visible, but are equally deadly.  For example, nobody could look at me and conclude that I am a diabetic.  Yet, diabetes is an insidious enemy hiding out of sight in my body.  Diabetes is just as much an illness as paralysis, but just not as obvious.

Sin is not always obvious to most people.  Most people think they are pretty good people—they certainly are not as bad as some others.  On the surface, that might actually appear to be true.  Most people are kind, most of the time.  Most people have not committed major crimes.  Yet, all people are as sick and disabled with sin as the paralytic man’s body was disabled with disease.  The Bible says,

For all have sinned  and fall short of the  glory of God. (Rom. 3:23).
Earlier in this same passage Paul put together some passages from the Old Testament that demonstrate the universal nature of human sin:

There is no one righteous, not even one. 11 There is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God. 12 All have turned away; all alike have become useless. There is no one who does what is good, not even one. (Rom. 3:10-12)

The first aspect we need to comprehend in regard to forgiveness is:  everybody needs it.

2.  The Act of Forgiveness (2-5)
Let’s reread verse 5:  Jesus told the paralytic, “Son, your sins  are forgiven.”
Just like that, as quick as the words were spoken, that paralytic man was forgiven and made right with God!  In this one moment of crisis the man’s life was divided in two between, the time before he was right with God, and the time after he was right with God.  This is true of every person who gets saved.  There must be a “crisis” moment, a definable event, in which someone turns from their sins—we call it repentance—and accepts the free gift of forgiveness from God—this receiving fo a free gift we call, grace.  Nobody is truly saved that cannot point to a conscious moment in which they willingly repented of their sins and freely received God’s grace.

One cannot be saved because they grew up in a Christian home in a Christian country.  Salvation is not hereditary.  One cannot be saved because they have done good works.  Salvation is not a matter of performance or merit.  One can only be saved when in a moment of crisis one willingly repents and openly receives the free gift offered by God.

With that established, let’s read a bit more of the text to see what happened before.

When  He entered Capernaum  again after some days, it was reported that He was at home. So many people gathered together that there was no more room, not even in the doorway, and He was speaking the message to them. Then they came to Him bringing a paralytic, carried by four men. Since they were not able to bring him to Jesus because of the crowd, they removed the roof above where He was. And when they had broken through, they lowered the mat on which the paralytic was lying.  Seeing their faith,  Jesus told the paralytic, “Son, your sins  are forgiven.”
Did you notice how much took place before the man received forgiveness?  First, someone had to invite the Lord to a particular place at a particular time.  Second, someone had to preach the message of the gospel (which was Jesus, Himself in this case).  Third, four men had to be concerned about the condition of their friend.  Remember, they did not separate his physical condition from his spiritual condition.  They were concerned for his soul as well as his body.  And, even if we cannot know that for sure, we know that it is a proper application of this text for us today.  Fourth, they had to take a great risk and make a great sacrifice.  Tearing off someone’s roof is an extreme measure!  All this took place and then Jesus said, after seeing their faith, “Son, your sins  are forgiven.”

Another aspect of forgiveness is somewhat contradictory.  Salvation is an event within a process.  Salvation happens at a particular time and place, but it was always a part of God’s plan.  We call this the doctrine of “election.”  Paul explains the process of salvation:

29 For those He foreknew He also predestined  to be conformed to the image of His Son,  so that He would be the firstborn among many brothers.  30 And those He predestined, He also called; and those He called, He also justified;  and those He justified, He also glorified. (Rom. 8:29-30)

One very important, and often neglected, aspect of salvation is that, though it is wholly a work of God “by grace through faith,” it has a human element.  Paul describes this human participation in the winning of souls:

13 For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.  14 But how can they call on Him they have not believed in? And how can they believe without hearing about Him?  And how can they hear without a preacher?

God in His sovereign economy has ordained that those who are saved would be the vehicles by which His saving message of grace is delivered.  This means, we can participate, as the four men in our story did, in the healing and forgiveness of others.  What a glorious opportunity this is.  How sad, so few of us take advantage of the opportunity of evangelism.
Everyone needs forgiveness.  Forgiveness is an event within a process. And,
3.  The Agent of Forgiveness is God, Himself, Through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.

The religious leaders, Scribes in this case, objected to Jesus “forgiving” the man.  They, themselves, were misinformed about Who Jesus was, but they were correct about Who, alone, had the power to heal.  The “teachers of the Law” declared,

“Why does He speak like this? He’s blaspheming!  Who can forgive  sins  but God alone?”

God, and only God can forgive sins.  This is absolutely correct.  And, to prove that He had indeed “forgiven” the man, Jesus then “healed” the man.  Look at verses 10-11:

10 But so you may know that the Son of Man  has authority  on earth to forgive sins,”  He told the paralytic, 11 “I tell you: get up,  pick up your mat, and go home.”

The issue in this story, and the next four “conflict stories” to follow was not the healing of the man but the identity of Jesus Christ.  He is God.  Jesus declared by His action of forgiving the man, “I am God.”  This caused the Scribes to rise up in anger accusing Jesus of blasphemy.
The issues with miracles is never primarily the miracles themselves.  Miracles are always about the “message” of Who God is, not about making life trouble free for humanity.  This is the great error of prosperity preachers like Joel Olsteen, Kenneth Copeland and a host of others.  The issue is about “exousia,” or authority, not comfort.  Miracles are not about health as much as about holiness.  Otherwise, a Good God would simply heal everybody, or not allow sickness in the first place.  Miracles are about a message, not about medicine.

The basic theme of the life of Jesus Christ in the gospel is not about the things He did, but it is about Who He was.  He was the Messiah—meaning, God-Man—Who would offer His perfect life as the perfect sacrifice on the cross.  Had Jesus been only a man, His death would have been insufficient to secure the opportunity for anyone to be saved.  He would just have been a good, but dead man.

There is no forgiveness through a pope, a priest, a bishop, a guru, or even a pastor.  The only agent of forgiveness is God, Himself, Who bestows His grace freely on any and all who would receive.

This brings me to an important conclusion in regard to forgiveness and in a biblical analysis of the Pope’s pronouncement that he was giving priests the power to forgive the sin of abortion.  An important aspect of forgiveness demonstrated in our text is this:

4.  The Enemy of Forgiveness is “Religious Ritual.” (v6)

Look at verse six carefully,  But some of the scribes  were sitting there, thinking  to themselves.”

For full disclosure let me say, all my academic training has been geared toward understanding religion and theology.  My graduate work focused primarily on the philosophical aspects of theology.  I love to think.  I love to read great thinkers.  I believe God highly values the human mind because, after all, He created it.  That being said, I cannot escape the problem of the Scribes and religious leaders who opposed Jesus.  Clearly, their problem was, as verse 6 points out, “they were thinking.”

The problem isn’t “thinking” itself, but how they were thinking.  The word translated “thinking to themselvescould also be translated, as the English Standard Version does, “questioning.”

Thinking, reasoning, or contemplating are great tools to gaining understanding and deepening one’s faith.  However, when we stop reasoning about what God has said, and Who God is, and we start questioning, then we enter some very dangerous waters.

Remember that Satan introduced sin, not with a proclamation but with a question:  “Did God really say?”  Just that little bit of doubt led to the first and most grievous sin of man.

The Scribes and Religious Leaders put more trust and faith in their religious rituals than they did the truth of God’s Word.  This is why they actually rebelled against the Messiah instead of embracing Him.  Jesus challenged their religion and they stood fast in defense of tradition rather than embrace what God was doing in their midst.

Religion blinded them to the opportunity of a relationship with Jesus Christ.  There are no stronger shackles than those forged with the iron of religion. 

Religion is “insulting to God.” Religion takes credit for accomplishing what only forgiveness through Christ can do.  It is insulting for us to treat the sacrifice of Jesus as “insufficient” by trying to prop up God’s plan with our works.  Religion causes us to put our trust in our religious performance rather than the free grace of God.  Religion puts ritual in the exalted place reserved only for the Son of God.  Religious ritual says that the death of Christ is insufficient to save. Religion says we must add to the death of Christ a host of activities from confessing to a priest, reciting a rosary, making the sign of the cross, and hundreds of other doctrinal additions.   At some point, when something is watered down to such an heavy extent, it ceases to have the effect and power it once had.  Like, watering down alcohol, as many unscrupulous bartenders are known to do.  Sure, the drinks still have some “alcohol” in it, but they no longer have the potency.  This is what happens with adding religious rituals to Christianity.

As I mentioned earlier,  this story is the beginning of a section of Mark that runs from 2:1-3:6.  this section outlines “five conflicts” that Jesus had with religious leaders in regard to “what is true and what is false.”  Jesus confronted the error of the religious leaders.  We need to confront that error everywhere we encounter it, also.

I don’t hate the Pope.  I hate the religion that has bound him to a false hope that the practice of religion can make a person better, much less bring him or her salvation

The Pope is wrong.  Eternally wrong.  Priests cannot offer forgiveness.  “Only God can forgive.”  Our text is plain.  Flee religion.  Escape from the false belief that you can merit God’s forgiveness through your religious performance.

Don’t be caught dead without Jesus.





Sunday, November 20, 2016

Gratitude is a Big Deal



November 20, 2016             Notes Not Edited
Gratitude Is a Big Deal
Luke 15:11-32
SIS – Ingratitude will blind you to the great things God is doing in you and around you and you will miss God’s blessings.

There’s no doubt about, “life can be extremely hard at times.”  It is easy to look at the seemingly easy life of people all around us and become downtrodden because of our own situation.  In the midst of horrible, personal suffering Job cried out:

Why do the wicked continue to live, growing old and becoming powerful? (Job 21:7)

It is extremely important to your health and well-being that you develop and “attitude of gratitude” that is independent of your past or present circumstances.

Ingratitude is a great sin that really has its basis in pride.  Ingratitude is actually the outgrowth of rebellion against God.  If we truly believe that God is good and that He is sovereign over all creation, then we have to accept that even the bad things in our lives are part of God’s good plan.  I know that is counter to our intuition, but so much of what the Bible teaches does run counter to what human reason—unaided by faith—would conclude.

Romans 8:28 tries to point us to a reconciliation between a bad situation in life and the unfolding of God’s good plan for our life.  28 We know that all things work together for the good  of those who love God: those who are called according to His purpose.  So, in faith, we can say with confidence:  “I am thankful regardless of my present circumstances.

One of the most enjoyable books one must read as one navigates the halls of academia is “Gulliver’s Travels.” I'm convinced that Gratitude is a Big Deal. As many of you know, Lemuel Gulliver recorded that in the Land of Lilliput, ingratitude was punishable by death!  Ingratitude was certainly a “big deal” to the undersized Lilliputians.

There is always something to be thankful for. I believe that with all my heart, but I must admit, sometimes my mind needs some convincing.  There is no doubt that life can be extremely hard at times--maybe even most of the time for some people. Spouting off a few verses on thanksgiving, or minimizing someone's pain with a quip like: well, it could have been worse, doesn't really help.
I think it is fair, and even within the bounds of devout living, to recognize that sometimes it is harder to be thankful than at other times. Sometimes, even the most devout lovers of God recognize that the "heathen" seems to be fairing much better than those genuinely trying to serve God.
Habakkuk, the prophet, had an intense discussion regarding just such a situation in his times. "How long, Lord must I call on you for help and You do not listen? . . . Why do You tolerate wrongdoing?" (Hab. 1:1,3).
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Life is certainly not always kind and fair, no matter whether you are living for God or for the Devil. The rain falls on the just and unjust equally. Without a life driven by an "attitude of gratitude," one can easily fall into despair, and even outright sin.

We can allow ingratitude to slip into our lives and rob us of the opportunity to celebrate what God is doing all around us--and even through us if we are not diligent and devoted.  Ingratitude will blind us to what God is doing about us, in us or through us, and prevent us from celebrating life.
The text we are going to read today describes just such a person—a person who allowed ingratitude to rob him of the opportunity to enjoy the wonderful things God was doing in his very mist.  Let’s read that story together.  LUKE 15:11-32

Now, this is a familiar story.  In fact, it is known in about every culture on earth.  The usual approach to teaching and preaching this passage focuses on the Prodigal Son, for obvious reasons.  The Prodigal’s path from rebellion to reconciliation provide the primary story line.  There is however a back story, as those familiar with Hollywood plots will recognize.  The main character in the backstory is the Elder Son.

The Elder Son typifies the experience of so many people.  Recall the scene:  some great fortune befell the Younger Son.  From a life of depravity, by means of the Father’s grace, the Younger Son receives a glorious party.  The whole household is full of joy.  Except, the Elder Son.  He is not happy.  He is not enjoying the party at all.  The Elder Son is angry.  Why?  Why is the Elder Son miserable when everyone else is so full of joy?  The Elder Son is ungrateful.  His ingratitude robbed him of the opportunity to join the celebration and experience the blessings so evident in his life.

There reasons the Elder Son was robbed of joy and fulfillment because of his ingratitude for what he had.  Three elements combine to allow ingratitude to breed and grow in the Elder Son’s heart.

1.  Performance Breeds Ingratitude--He let PERFORMANCE rob him of GRACE (29-30)

Notice how the Elder Son reacts to his brother's good fortune:

29 But he replied to his father, ‘Look, I have been slaving many years for you, and I have never disobeyed your orders, yet you never gave me a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your assets with prostitutes,  you slaughtered the fattened calf for him.’

The Elder Son’s complaint all revolves around his performance.  It’s hard not to imagine that the Elder Son is exaggerating a little bit about “never disobeying” but in general the statement may well be true.  He had always performed as the “dutiful son.”  That is an honorable thing.  We should always do our best.  We should always seek to perform at a level of excellence, however, we err greatly when we make our performance the basis for our salvation—represented by the father’s reception of his Prodigal Son, which was based on grace, not performance.

The Elder Son’s attitude represents a “performance-based” view of salvation.  If the father in the story represents God—and He does—we see God giving the Younger Son something he does NOT deserve.  The father gives the younger son, “forgiveness,” without the younger son having any merit at all that would justify that forgiveness.  That is what we call, grace-based salvation.  It has nothing at all to do with our performance.

The Elder Son correctly points out to the father that his younger brother’s performance completely disqualifies him for the father’s forgiveness.  And, the Elder Son is correct in that regard. 
Performance and grace are like oil and water.  They just do not mix.  The entire Old Testament is written to show us that it is impossible to please God through our performance.  Paul reminds us

Gal. 2     21 I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness comes through the law [that is, performance]  then Christ died  for nothing.

Even if you could perform the Law of God perfectly—and you can’t—you could never gain salvation by your performance.  In fact, seeking salvation through performance will rob you of the experience of grace.  Without a clear understanding of grace, you will not be able to be truly thankful.  If “forgiveness” of your sins does not make you truly grateful, nothing else will.

The Elder Son could not be thankful for the salvation of his younger brother because the Elder Son did not understand grace.  He let religious performance rob him of the experience of grace.

2.  Possessions Breed Ingratitude--He let POSSESSIONS rob him of PEACE (31b, 28)

31beverything I have is yours.

There are two ways in which possessions can rob us of our inability to be grateful—having too little, or having too much.  Both those who are poor and those who have rich can fall into the trap of riches. 

Those who are poor, obviously can fall into the trap of ingratitude by measuring their lives by what they do NOT have.  When a person is struggling just to make ends meet, it is hard not to realize that one does not possess enough of the material things in life.  For example, if a person is working 10 hours a day, six days a week at two or three jobs just to feed his family, it would be unnatural for such a person not to notice that the person up the street works a straight 8 hour day, five days a week and has plenty of food on the table, two cars in the garage of a big house, and a boat on carport. 

Poverty can put blinders on our eyes so that all we can see is what we do NOT have.  The lack of possessions can make it difficult to be thankful.

Here’s the ironic twist in this story.  The father reminds the Elder Son, “Everything I have is yours!”  Here’s a person that has “everything” and it is still not enough.  The rich person is as consumed by what he does NOT have as the poor person.  Look at the Elder Son’s complaint in v.28:

you never gave me a young goat
so I could celebrate with my friends.

He had everything, but he didn’t have enough.  Possessions can rob us of our peace in life.  A constant striving to collect more and more material blessings keep our heart in constant turmoil.  Riches can rob us of peace, and make it hard to be truly grateful for all we DO have.

Remember, both sons received their share of the inheritance. The Younger Son just received it prematurely and wasted it foolishly. Being the Elder Son, he actually received more than his brother.  He received two-thirds while the younger one third of the capital assets, which apparently were substantial.  The father retained what is called the “usufruct.” Under Roman law the Elder Son who gained title to the property could not dispose of it.  He had full benefit of the estate though he could not liquidate it while the father lived.

But what good did all these possessions do the Elder Son?  He had no peace in his soul.  He was not thankful for what he had—which apparently was substantial.  He wanted more.  He spent his days consumed with improving the holdings of the estate.  His possessions robbed him of his peace.  When everyone else was “celebrating,” he was “calculating.”  

A person can have all the money in the world and at the end of the day all he has is “all the money in the world.”  All the money in the world certainly cannot buy salvation.  It certainly can’t buy love.  it certainly cannot buy peace.  In fact, too often just the opposite occurs.  The more possessions one has the less peace one has in life.

The Elder Son had great possessions, but no peace.  The Elder Son had much wealth, but no joy.  He could not celebrate the great event in his brother’s life.  He was consumed by ingratitude.  The father points out how the Elder Son is letting possessions rob him of peace:

31 “ ‘Son,’  he said to him, ‘you are always with me,  and everything I have is yours. 32 But we had to celebrate and rejoice, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ ”

Solomon knew a thing or two about wealth.  This is his conclusion:

10 The one who loves money is never satisfied with money, and whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with income. This too is futile.

Possessions robbed the Elder Son of his peace and ability to join in the celebration.  Possessions impoverished the Elder Son in regard to all that really matter.  Possessions bound the Elder Son in shackles of ingratitude.

3.  Pride Breeds Ingratitude--He let PRIDE rob him of LOVE (31a, 32, 20)
Notice the kindness and love extended to the Elder Son by the Father:

31 “ ‘Son,’  he said to him, ‘you are always with me,

The language of this address in the original demonstrates the father had a deep affection for the Elder Son (Baker Exegetical Commentary).  He loved the Elder Son very much.  One can almost hear the heartbreak in the father’s voice as the father realized his son did not fully comprehend how much he really was loved. 

Beyond that, the father was grieved no doubt that the Elder Son was focusing on himself, rather than on his younger brother.  Verse 32 is also emphatic in its expression of the “necessity” to celebrate this great transformation in the younger son’s life.  It says,

32 But we had to celebrate and rejoice, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ ”

The words translated, “we had to,” literally means, “this situation is characterized by compulsion and necessity.”  Notice the text not only stresses the urgency of the moment but the urgency of the relationship.  The father reminds the Elder Son, “This is not only my son, but it is your brother.”  The tone hear seems to change to where the father appears aggravated that the Elder Son was only thinking about himself, and not his dear brother. 

There is no greater sadness than to live a life in which your love is only big enough to cover yourself.  The Parable of the Prodigal Son is a love story—pure and simple.  The father’s reaction to his returning son is nothing short of amazing, considering the son’s actions.  The entire household—the whole ranch—went into celebration mode.  The father focused on the son he loved, not on the money he had lost.

The father could not contain his love for his son.  Day after day for perhaps a few years the father would go out to the long lane passing through the property, stretching his neck and peeling his eyes to see if maybe this was the day his beloved son would return.  Finally, that day did come.  The Bible says the father was “filled with compassion”  (v20).  The word describes a “deep, gut-level love that is uncontainable.”  The father had no harsh words for his son, only a warm embrace.  Yet, the text clearly contrasts the Elder Son’s reaction.  He was not filled with love, but the text says,

he became angry.

The father was “filled with compassion” and the Elder Son was “filled with anger.”  What was the difference?  In a word, “pride.”  The father was focused on someone else.  The Elder Son was focused on himself.  The father was consumed by love.  The Elder Son was consumed by anger.  Pride eliminates the ability to be truly thankful because it destroys the ability to love and be loved.  Without love, one’s life becomes a small room with no doors or windows.  It becomes a prison cell.  Pride breeds ingratitude and ingratitude shrivels up one’s heart.  Pride isolates us from others.
Notice how this texts weaves pride into the warp and weft of this story.  The father did not let pride keep him from his son, and the son did not let pride keep him from the father, but the Elder Son let pride keep him from both his father and his brother.  Pride robbed the Elder Son of love, and caused a festering sore of ingratitude.  And in the course of the matter, pride robbed the Elder Son from enjoying the great celebration all around him. 

Pride turns our whole lives inside out, or actually folds life back onto itself.  Pride locks us into a small room of self-centeredness in which there are no windows—only mirrors.  Pride keeps us from seeing all the good that God is doing in us, about us, and even through us.  Pride makes it impossible to be truly grateful.

It is easy to see the source of the Elder Son’s troubles:  29 But he replied to his father, ‘Look, I have been slaving many years for you, and I have never disobeyed your orders, yet you never gave me a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends.

Perhaps some editing will make it clearer:  “Look, I. . .and I. . .so I.”

The Elder Son had an “I” problem that robbed him of the opportunity to embrace his brothers turn of fortunes, and to reflect on his continuing good fortune.  Rather than be grateful for his brother’s good fortune, the Elder Son could only reflect upon himself.

Why was the Elder Son so ungrateful?  Why was the Elder Son incapable of truly entering into the festivities and celebration taking place around him?  Ingratitude robbed him of the opportunity to really enjoy the blessings of life.  His performance robbed him of grace.  His possessions robbed him of peace; and his pride robbed him of love.  All this added up to an angry, ungrateful, isolated man.
A grand old hymn gives us a necessary reminder of how to maintain a thankful heart:  Count your many blessings name them one by one. A prideful person loses count of his or her blessings.
We must not allow ingratitude to rob us of the opportunity to enjoy the multitude blessings of life.  Even if the only blessing we have to count is:  “well it could be worse!” then I think we have much for which to be thankful.  If we focus on the One Who Is Perfect, we can be thankful even if our circumstances are NOT perfect.  

It was years ago when reading Gulliver’s Travels that I came upon the Lilliputian’s view of how big a deal gratitude really was.  In the Land of Lilliput, ingratitude was punishable by death!  Gratitude was a “big deal” for these “little people.”  That picture has stuck with me in regard to thanksgiving for all these many years.

I’m not so sure, our society really appreciates how big a deal “gratitude” to God really is.  I’m not so sure that the church realizes how big a deal gratitude really is.  If I had nothing else whatsoever to be happy for other than the fact that “For God so loved me that He gave His only Son for me, that by believing in Him I will not perish but have eternal life” . . . well, that is certainly a “big deal” for which I can be truly grateful.