Saturday, June 25, 2016

Hyper Nike

June 26, 2016 (013110)   NOTES NOT EDITED.
Text:  Romans 8:26, 28, 31-39
Title: Hyper Nike

SIS:  When we cross the bridge of faith we become “more than conquerors.”

            Some of the most spectacular structures man has ever created are bridges.  One only needs to view the fog-encased Golden Gate Bridge spanning the opening of the great San Francisco Bay to prove my point.  It is a spectacular sight.  Though not the tallest, or the longest bridge in the world it is perhaps the one of the most famous. 
            The Golden Gate (which is actually orange) bridge [SLIDE] is suspended on two great cables consisting of over 80,000 miles of steel wire.  That’s enough to circle the equator of the world three times.  There was enough concrete poured to anchor the towers into the choppy waters of the San Francisco Bay to pave a five-feet wide sidewalk from New York to San Francisco!
            As fantastic as that is, the Golden Gate is small compared to the Akashi Kaikyo Bridge in Japan [SLIDE].  This is the longest suspension bridge in the world.  It stretches almost 3000 feet further than the Golden Gate Bridge to connect the city of Kobe with Awaji-shima Island across the Akashi Strait.  The Akashi Kaikyo Bridge isn't just long -- it's also extremely tall. Its two towers, at 928 feet, soar higher than any other bridge towers in the world.
            Of course, my favorite bridge in all the world is the New River Gorge Bridge [SLIDE] spanning the breathtaking New River Gorge in Southern West Virginia.  Before the bridge was built it took about 40 minutes detour to cross the New River Gorge.  Now, it takes about a minute.

Bridges are fascinating marvels of human ingenuity. 
Bridges serve a very simple purpose: they connect two places that were not connected before.  That’s why a “bridge” perfectly illustrates the biblical concept of faith.  Through faith in Jesus Christ as the Lord of Life, God and man are “connected.”  The Word says:
           
8 For it is by grace you have been saved,
through faith (Eph 2:8)

God in His infinite mercy and abundant grace responds to one’s faith by providing salvation.  Saving faith in the person and work of Jesus Christ bridges the gap of sin that presently separates man from God – and will continue to separate man from God through eternity (if one fails to make the “faith connection in this life”).

A metaphor is a comparison between two objects or ideas that share common traits.  I’d like to show you this morning how “faith in Jesus Christ” is a bridge that connects a person in this world with the God of eternity in what we call, salvation.  This “grace bridge of faith” is the ONLY way that provides for present victory and eternal bliss.  It is faith, and “faith alone” that makes us what Paul calls, “more than conquerors” or “hyper nikes” as we will see later.  There is nothing else long enough, strong enough, or high enough to make the eternal connection between God and man across the impassable gorge of sin but “saving faith.”

Let’s read together Paul’s description of the kind of faith that makes us “More than Conquerors.”  Romans 8:26, 28, 31-39

26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness.
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28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,who have been called according to his purpose.
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31 What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all-how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died-more than that, who was raised to life-is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written: "For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered."  37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Here’s four reasons why faith in Jesus Christ is the only thing that can bridge the gap of sin that separates man from God:

1.  Saving Faith is LONG enough (v.39)

[nothing ] in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God  that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

A bridge that is not long enough simply is not good enough. It is a waste of materials.  There is an old, much beloved hymn based upon The text in the Book of Acts when Paul is making a defense for the gospel before the non-believing King Agrippa I.  Paul’s argument for faith in Christ was almost strong enough to persuade this wicked King.  The King says: "You almost persuade me to become a Christian." Acts 26:28-29

The hymn writer put it like this:

“Almost persuaded” now to believe; 
“Almost persuaded” Christ to receive;
Seems now some soul to say, // “Go, Spirit, go Thy way,
Some more convenient day // On Thee I’ll call.”

“Almost persuaded,” harvest is past!
“Almost persuaded,” doom comes at last!
“Almost” cannot avail; // “Almost” is but to fail!
Sad, sad, that bitter wail— // “Almost,” but lost!

In faith, like bridge-building, almost comes up catastrophically short.

Have you ever been driving down a freeway and come across a new overpass being constructed?  The road rises high above the freeway but seemingly stops in mid-air.  The entrance is blocked off because traveling across such a structure would lead to certain death when one plunged off the unconnected end.

In faith, like bridge-building, almost just isn’t good enough. People try to build all kinds of bridges to cross the gorge of sin.  Some people build bridges of charity and good works – but good works are not good enough.  Some people try to build bridges of wise-sounding philosophy – but even the best philosophy is not good enough to connect man with God.  Some people try to build bridges of religion to span the gulf separating man from God.  Religion is a bridge that is simply NOT LONG ENOUGH to bridge the gap of sin that separates man from God. 

Good works won’t connect you with God.  Great philosophy and high-thinking won’t connect you with God.  The most sincere acts of religion will not connect a person with God.  Only the bridge of faith in Jesus Christ can do that.

The Bible says, (1 Tim 2:4-6) 5 For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all men-the testimony given in its proper time.

The word “mediator” means “someone who stands between two others,” a bridge if you will between two parties.

Jesus Christ is God’s bridge to man – the only bridge long enough to span the gorge of sin and save a person for eternity.

God, Himself, provides the only bridge long enough to connect man with Him for all eternity – it is the bridge of “faith” in Jesus Christ.  He alone is long enough.

2.  Saving Faith in Jesus Christ is also  STRONG enough (26, 31)

26 in the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness.
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31 What, then, shall we say in response to this?
If God is for us, who can be against us?

Let me turn verse 31 around a little to get at its meaning. “If God is for us, who can be against us” is our response to this.”

That begs the question, “what is the ‘this’ Paul is talking about.” Look at verse 18 which really opens the section we are studying. Paul says,

18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.

Go down the page a few more passages and you will get an even clearer message of “who, or what comes against us”–or the “this.”  Paul says declares in  35-36:

35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written: "For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered."

Trouble, hardship, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger or sword. These are the foes that come against us as we try to live for Jesus in this world.  I’ll say more about living above life’s circumstances in a minute, but here I want to consider the question: “is faith in Jesus Christ strong enough to withstand the storms that come against our lives?”  The answer is “yes!”  Nothing can overcome us if we are firmly connected to God across the bridge of faith in Jesus Christ.  NOTHING.  NADA. ZIP. ZILCH!  The “this” is outlined in verses 1-30 under the general principle of “living the spiritual life.”  Living a life in Christ is living a life in victory, strong enough to withstand whatever may come one’s way.

Some people have the mistaken notion that a person becomes saved by the grace of God through simple faith in Jesus Christ but STAYS SAVED by right living or religious ritual.  Friend, that is a schizophrenic faith that ain’t never going to allow you to become “more than a conqueror in Christ.”

The bridge of faith in Jesus Christ is strong enough because it is a bridge built with the material of God’s promises in the Bible.

For example, listen to Phil. 1:6: being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

Friend, there is no need to doubt your faith if your faith is in Jesus Christ. It is strong enough to stand against any storm that comes into your life.

Robert Louis Dabney was an outstanding Presbyterian theologian during the mid-19th century. He served as a minister, as a chaplain, as chief of staff to General Stonewall Jackson, and as a seminary professor. He also helped establish a seminary in Austin, Texas. As he aged, Dabney began to worry about his impending death, and he expressed his fears in a letter to a former student and theologian, C.R. Vaughan.  Dabney wondered about his ability to die honorably and to hold on to his Christian faith. Vaughan replied: "Dear friend, let me advise you now as you often have me. If you were about to cross a deep chasm, and there were a bridge over it, would you stand there looking in at yourself, wondering if you trusted enough in bridges to be able to cross? Or would you not rather go and examine the beams and timbers of the bridge and the quality of its construction, and determine whether the bridge was trustworthy, and then pass over it in confidence? Our faith is in Christ; spend yourself focusing on Him and His sufficiency, rather than on your own strengths or merits."

Faith is simply taking one more step and trusting the “beams and timbers” of God’s providence to protect you along life's path. We simply keep taking one more step trusting that God will provide the way.  Our trust – our faith – is in God, not our goodness or abilities. When we have faith, God always makes a way for us to become "more than conquerors." Faith is not trusting in our beliefs but believing the One that is trustworthy.  Don’t confuse the two.

The Bible says in Col 2:6, as ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him: (KJV)

We receive salvation by grace through faith, so we must continue our walk by grace through faith.  The weakest bridge we can build in our lives is a bridge built on good works.  That will never get us to heaven.  Good works are not strong enough to “help us in our weakenesses.”  Only God can do that.

And, “If God is for us, who (or what)  can be against us!”  The answer is nothing or no one.

3.  The bridge of faith is not only long enough and strong enough, but it is HIGH ENOUGH (v 38, 39)

38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

In my studies this week I came across something that pricked my heart.  After describing the beauty and awe-inspiring elegance of the Golden Gate Bridge, a man sadly pointed out that the glorious bridge across the bay is also a final stop for many who commit suicide by jumping from the bridge.

If you stand on the Golden Gate Bridge and look down into the choppy waters of the San Francisco Bay 245 feet or so below, it can be a scary sight.  Death awaits anyone who plunges into the chilly, choppy, shark infested waters.

My point is this: the bridge of faith is designed by God to keep us ABOVE the choppy, chilly waters of sin.  Faith is a bridge that is not only long enough and strong enough, faith is a bridge HIGH enough to allow us to be “more than conquerors” through Christ Jesus.  God didn’t save us just to get “by” in the world, but to get “ahead.” 

Many, perhaps most people, in church seem to think that the goal of salvation is to meet some “minimum” standard in order to get into heaven.  Salvation is like a “fire insurance policy.”  No, no, no.  God didn’t save us to simply get us out of this world, but to get the world out of us—faith requires holiness, and holiness requires living “above” the sin-stained pattern of the world.

As I said a minute ago, we are saved by grace and we are kept by grace, but we still have much work to do to become the quality of disciple that God has purposed us to be.  In other words, if we truly have faith in Jesus Christ, we have the power to live above the sin of the world—to be “more” than just saved, but to be pursuing holiness.   We may not work to gain our salvation, and we certainly cannot work enough to keep our salvation, but if we truly have faith in Jesus Christ, we will certainly work to live high above the choppy waters of sin.

Think about what we read in verses 38-39.  Below our bridge of faith is the choppy of waters of death, demons, and worry about the future.  There are the heights of pride and the depths of depravity.  In short, all around us as we stand on the bridge of faith are opportunities to cave in to sin and worldliness.  Paul says that the bridge of faith is HIGH enough to keep us above a life of sin and the dangers of depraved living:

But, we can jump off the bridge of faith into the chilly waters of worldliness anytime we have a mind to do so.  If we are truly saved, we will not lose our salvation by participating in sin – but we will certainly lose our testimony and effectiveness as believers.  And . . . we may even lose our life and health.

In confronting the Church at Corinth about their worldliness and sin Paul said, That is why many of you are weak and sick, and some have even died.  (1Cor. 11:30, TLB)

As disciples of Jesus Christ, we are to exercise our faith by living high above the immorality of the world.  The Word tells us that we are to avoid even the appearance of evil” (1Thess. 5:22).

In a word, the bridge of faith gives us the power to be “holy.” In regard to man, that doesn’t mean we are perfect, but that we live our lives in such a way that we “set aside” exclusively for service to God – that’s the meaning of holiness.

When Jesus commended the two servants in the Parable of the Talents who faithfully invested their talents in the Kingdom He called them, "good and faithful." (Mt. 25:21).  We can be "good," and we can be "faithful." Christians can live above the level of worldliness.

Without a doubt the bridge of faith in Jesus Christ spans the chilly, choppy danger-ridden sea of worldliness.  On the bridge we are high above the dangers of sin. But . . . if we leap from the faith that God has given us, death in one way or another is sure to be the result—death of the body, and/or death of our witness and testimony.

The bridge of faith in Jesus Christ is HIGH enough to keep us above the powers of sin.  By accepting Christ as our Lord and Savior we are released from the penalty.  By living the HIGH life of a disciplined life of holiness, we constantly exercise power over sin.  One day, when we are in heaven with Jesus we will even be released from the very presence of sin. 

But for now, we must travel on the Bridge of Faith that is HIGH enough to allow us to be “more than conquerors” in the battle against worldliness.

It is a lie of the Devil that says a saint in Christ cannot live a disciplined, holy life living far above and beyond the allure of the spirit of this world.  The Bible says,

“Be holy for I am holy” (1Pet 1:16) and,  . . . "Since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.”  (2 Cor 7:1)

The Bridge of Faith is definitely HIGH enough to keep us far above and beyond any threat from death, demons, or doubts about the future.

There is a fourth characteristic of the bridge of faith that summarizes the other three.  Because the bridge of faith is LONG enough, STRONG enough, and HIGH enough, it is a Bridge that WORKS.  Look back at v 28

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,  who have been called according to his purpose.

Underline those words: God works.”

Sanctification, that is the process of becoming holy, is not a matter of "good" works, but "God works."Oh, what a difference an “o” makes!

Everything else in life will fail you.  Family will fail you.  Friends will fail you. Finances will fail you.  But, faith in God will NEVER fail you.  It works the first time and every time for all time [REPEAT]

Everyone is looking for something that will give them assurance and confidence for the future.  People buy lottery tickets, look for hope in a bottle, try to make life work with drugs or illicit sex.  But, when crunch time comes, none of that works.  What DOES work every time for all time is: faith.  It is a bridge that connects you to the All-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving God of the universe.  If that doesn’t excite you and make you want to throw yourself at the feet of Jesus, then . . . I don’t know what else to tell you.

Becoming “more than a conqueror” only happens when we step out in faith and God through Jesus Christ.  He's the Bridge that connects man with God.

The words “more than conquerors” is a translation of a single word in the original Greek.  That word is “hupernikomen.”  Most of you are familiar with part of that word, “Nike.”  It is the brand name for a sporting goods company.  It is also the name of the Greek god of victory.  But, Paul has no patience with the petty gods of the pagan Greeks.  Paul supes-up the word Nike like they supe-up cars on “Pimp My Ride.”  He says, “We are not just victors – we are hyper-victors!  We are super-victors!  We are “more than conquerors” when we cross the bridge of faith in the Jesus Christ.

No truer words have been spoken in an action movie, perhaps, than those spoken by Indiana Jones as he takes his first step into what appears to be certain death.  He says, “It must be a leap of faith.”  That was the key to the bridge connecting Indiana Jones with the other side across an impassable gulf. 

[PLAY VIDEO CLIP of bridge appearing as he walked]

Friends, God has provided the bridge through Jesus Christ.  Now, it is a matter of exercising your faith.

Whether it is exercising your faith for the first time in salvation.  Or to follow in baptism . . . or, to become a minister of the gospel through this church . . . or, to overcome some difficult situation in your life.  The Bridge is available.  You can "cross that bridge of faith and become more than a conqueror."

Would you consider crossing that bridge today, by putting your trust in the Lord Jesus Christ.



Sunday, June 19, 2016

The World Needs Better Coaches



June 19, 2016                   NOTES NOT EDITED
The World Needs Better Coaches
Deuteronomy 6:1-10

SIS:      Men need to become godly leaders in our homes and our world.

NOTE:  This message still applies to you even if you do not have children of your own or if your children are grown. Or, if you are a single Mom. It also applies to “future fathers.” Men—all men—must demonstrate godliness to the next generation—all children—if our nation has any hope of seeing a revival spread through our land.  It’s time re-establish a new generation of “Founding Fathers” for our nation who have solid, biblical values.

One of the great coaches in American history was  Chuck Noll, the beloved coach of the Pittsburgh Steelers, who died at the age of 82.  He coached behind the Steel Curtain from 1969 to 1991 (23 seasons) and turned the Steelers into a football powerhouse.  Prior to Chuck Noll’s entry into the Steeler locker room, the Steelers had not won a title in 40 years.  Under Noll, they collected four Super Bowl rings, the most of any coach.  Noll defines what it means to be a “great coach.”

But, Noll was not the greatest coach I’ve ever known.  That title goes to a man I had the pleasure to be coached by for about 11 seasons of little league baseball in Moundsville, WV.  Little League in Moundsville rivals in excitement anything you would see in sports.  It was almost a religion.

I began my Little League career with the "Greatest Coach of All Time" -- my Dad.  My Dad had been a semi-pro baseball player but gave up the pursuit of playing in the Big Leagues to marry his high school sweetheart -- my mom. 

Throughout my life I have been continually amazed at how great a coach my Dad really was.  And, I don’t mean just coaching baseball skills.  From my father I learned much more than how to hit a ball, field a grounder or slide into a base.  Years ago I wrote a poem in honor of my Dad and how as my life-time coach he laid the foundation for any success I've had in life.  I’m not much of a poet, but this captures the essence of what a real coach really does.  This poem honors my Dad, and all those dads who have and are "coaching their children to love God and others through service to the Lord Jesus Christ."

Dad was my coach.
He taught me how to face a curve-ball pitcher;
But more than that,
He taught me how to face the curves life throws at you.
Dad was my coach.
He taught me to run the bases with speed and agility.
But more than that,
He taught me how to run the race of life with diligence and integrity.
Dad was my coach. 
He taught me the art of stealing bases,
But more than that,
He taught me that lying, cheating, and stealing were wrong.
Dad was my coach.
He taught me how to catch a fly ball.
But more than that,
He taught me how to catch a vision for what I could become in life.
Dad was my coach,
He taught me the fundamentals of the game.
But more than that,
He taught me the fundamentals of living.
Dad was my coach—But, he was more than that!

Great coaches produce great teams–whether it be baseball, basketball, football, swimming, hockey, or whatever sport you choose.  Great coaches produce great teams.  But, the greatest coach of all is the father that guides his family to spiritual victory.

The key to America’s future is the traditional family,
and the key to the traditional family is — DAD!

The Bible shows us how men can be better coaches:
(Deu 6:1-9)  “This is the command—the statutes and ordinances—the Lord your God has instructed me to teach you, so that you may follow them in the land you are about to enter and possess.  Do this so that you may fear  the Lord your God  all the days of your life  by keeping all His statutes and commands I am giving you, your son, and your grandson, and so that you may have a long life.  Listen, Israel, and be careful to follow them, so that you may prosper and multiply greatly, because Yahweh, the God of your fathers, has promised you a land flowing with milk and honey. “Listen, Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is One.  d Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.  These words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart.  Repeat them to your children.  Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Bind them as a sign on your hand and let them be a symbol  on your forehead.  j Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

This is the most sacred portion of Scripture for the Jews–especially, verse 4.  It is called the Shema[h], derived from the first word of verse 4, “shema,” meaning to “hear.”  Oh, how we need to hear the message of this text.  Our very survival depends upon it.

The implications of our text our clear. Israel’s future depended upon their understanding and application of God’s Word.  As the nation stands on the edge of the Promised Land, Moses reminds them that success or failure depended upon their obedience to the “words of God’s Law.”  The key to the success of any family or nation is to discover and obey the truths of God’s Word.

In fact, that is the “Hebrew title” of this book of the Bible, “These are the words.”

Americas future depends on Christ-centered, Biblically-based families living, loving, and serving together through God’s church.

It is clear that the focus must be the family. Not the church, not the government–but the family.
Notice verses 6-9 again:

  (Deu 6:6-9)  These words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart.  Repeat them to your children.  Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Bind them as a sign on your hand and let them be a symbol  on your forehead.  j Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

The Jews took this passage very seriously, and
quite literally. [SHOW SLIDE] Orthodox Jews, even today, will wear phylacteries.  Phylacteries are small boxes that hold the Shema, and a few other verses.  They literally tie them on their hands and feet.  It is not uncommon to find Scripture verses on the doorposts of a Jewish home.  The Scriptures are a central fixture in an Orthodox Jewish home.  The home was the center of religious training in Israel, not the Temple.

Over and over again, I have heard fathers say: “Well, I raised them in church.” God never asked us to “raise our kids in church, but to raise our kids at home!” 

America needs better coaches in the home.

The Bible clearly shows us in this text what the key to a successful family is—an obedient father providing for the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of his family.

1.  First, A great father gives his family DIRECTION (v 1)

(Deu 6:1)  “This is the command—the statutes and ordinances—the Lord your God has instructed me to teach you, so that you may follow them in the land you are about to enter and possess.

This was a new day in the life of Israel. God knew they needed “direction” as they passed into a new phase.  They had never been this way before.  They needed a “guide.”

Fathers, your children need your direction if they are going to “cross over into an unknown land of adulthood.” Our children have never been adults, and they need Dad to point the way. Before you can provide direction for the family, you have to discover the way yourself.  If you are not first living according to verse 5:

(Deu 6:5)   Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.

There is little chance your family will ever discover the abundant living of the Promised Land.

You give your family direction, by providing them an example—a leader—to follow. Love for God is more easily caught, than taught!

Once you know the way, you can provide for another need that all families have:

2.  Families need INSTRUCTION (6:6-7)

(Deu 6:6-7)  These words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart.  Repeat them to your children.  Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

Children need boundaries.  Children especially need “religious boundaries.”  I’ve heard parents say, “I’m not going to force religion on my children.  I’m going to wait until they are old enough to decide for themselves.”

This is absolutely nonsense. Do you say, “I’m not going keep them playing in the street.  I’m going to let them decide when they are older if playing in traffic is something they want to do.”  Our children will be physically, emotionally, and spiritually endangered if we do not give them the instruction they need in life.  A child’s success as an adult is greatly affected by the instruction he or she receives when they are young.

(Prov 22:6)  Teach a youth about the way he should go;
even when he is old he will not depart from it.

I like what a good friend o shared with me.  “If we do not NIP it in the bud when our children are young, we’ll have to use a chain saw to clear the brush when they are older!”

Don’t wait until you need a chain-saw to clear the rubbage from your child’s life, Begin their instruction early. Children need to begin to learn the Scriptures from the time they are in the cradle.  Immerse your home in Christian teaching.

3.  Children need PROTECTION (7:1-6)

Someone said wisely, "I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection." (Sigmund Freud). We need to read ahead to see another need a child has that a Father can meet.  They need protection.

(Deu 7:1-6)  When the Lord your God brings you into the land  you are entering to possess,  and He drives out many nations before you—the Hittites, Girgashites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites, seven nations  more numerous and powerful than you — and when the Lord your God delivers them over to you and you defeat them, you must completely destroy  them. Make no treaty with them and show them no mercy.  Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons,  because they will turn your sons away from Me to worship other gods.  Then the Lord’s anger will burn against you,  and He will swiftly destroy you. Instead, this is what you are to do to them: tear down their altars, smash their sacred pillars, cut down their Asherah poles,  and burn up their carved images. For you are a holy people  belonging to the Lord your God. The Lord your God has chosen you to be His own possession  out of all the peoples on the face of the earth.

A child has the right to expect certain things from the father: food, clothing, and shelter are the “big three.” But, they need much more than physical shelter.

The world is not a safe place for kids.  They need protection--not just protection from the cold of the world, but from a world that can harsh, bitter, and frightening.  A world that will devour your children if you do not protect them from its hazards.

Young children, like baby birds, need your protection from the hazards of life.
           
4.  Children also need CORRECTION

Kids will be kids–you can count on it! You can direct your kids, instruct your kids, and protect your kids, but sooner or later you must correct your kids!  The Bible is very clear (Proverbs 13:24)

24 The one who will not use the rod hates his son,
but the one who loves him disciplines him diligently.

PLEASE DO NOT HEAR WHAT I AM NOT SAYING . . . These verses is not a license to “beat the daylights out of your children.”Correction must NEVER—THAT IS NEVER–be associated with anger.

A firm hand and a hard heart make a terrible and volatile combination.  Be firm, but gentle. Make sure you send the right message when you correct your children.  I read recently about a little boy in the second grade who was complaining to a classmate.  Billy confided in his friend, “Tommy, I’m going crazy at home!  If I make noise, they spank me, and if I’m quiet, they take my temperature!”
Children need correction—but make sure you send the right message.

I’ve save the best for last. No coach ever attains greatness without a passion for his players. A great DAD must give his kids direction, instruction, protection, and correction, But, above all, great Dad’s give their wife and kids

5.  AFFECTION (1Cor 13:8)

“Love NEVER fails.” . . . PERIOD!

What is the number one complaint when I talk to wives about their husbands, or children about their fathers in a counseling session?  It is probably not what you think.  The number one complaint isn’t that “dad is too hard on us!”  Children of even the most domineering father can accept his rules and regulations.  The number one problem is not that “dad is selfish.”  Most children I’ve talked to have as much as they want or have learned to live with what they have.  The number one problem isn’t “dad does not love me.”  Most wives I’ve met and children I’ve talked to say, “I know Dad loves me.”  The number one complaint about husbands and fathers–men–, is, “Dad does not express his love.”

Many children grow up and leave the nest without ever hearing their father say, “I love you!”  Wives and children need to hear those words, backed up by a man’s actions—“I love you!”  Dad, your home needs your affection.  You may fail at many things, but if you do not fail at giving your family your affection—you will coach a winning team.  Above all—your family needs your affection.

A coach is any person who gets a child from where they are to where God wants them to be – a coach is a vehicle.  To do this, adults—especially fathers—need to provide direction, instruction, protection, correction and affection.  These are the characteristics of a great coach.

A few years ago two rival high school football teams were locked in combat in the final champion-ship game.  Each team’s reputation was on the line.  The home team was backed up to its own 3 yard lines with time running out.   The score was tied.  On the next play, the first string quarterback was sacked at the line of scrimmage.  Worse yet, his ankle was sprained.  The second string quarterback was out with the flu.  The coach had no choice but to play a freshman quarterback who had never been in a high school game.  The coach hoped that he could keep the game tied, and the first string quarterback could go back in the game during overtime, and save the home team’s reputation.  He sent the rookie into the game with explicit instructions.  The coach said, “Run 22-e twice, and then punt.”  The coach did not want to take the chance of giving the other team the ball with time left for a possible score.  So, in goes the rookie.  He calls “22-e.”  The team runs the play and to the surprise of everyone they gained 45 yards.  They were now on the 48 yard line.  In the huddle, the rookie quarterback follows his coaches orders and calls 22-e.  This time the team gains 49 yards.  It is last down.  One second remains on the timer.  They are on the 3 yard line.  This would be their last play.  The rookie follows orders.  He takes the snap, drops back, and punts the ball into the end zone.  The game ends in a tie.  The team will go on to lose in overtime.

When the rookie comes off the field after punting from the 3 yard line, the coach is red with rage.  The rookie could not understand it.  He followed the coaches orders to the letter.  Barely able to talk the coach stammers, “Son, what in the world was going through your mind on that last play?”  The rookie quarterback answered, “The only thing going through my mind was, ‘man do we ever have a dumb coach!”

America has a coaching problem. We need men who will give their families the direction, protection, correction, and affection that they need to be physically, emotionally, and spiritually successful in the game of life. 

We all complain about the state of affairs in our nation—taxes are too high, the character of our politicians are too low.  Crime is going through the roof and character is in the gutter.  We vote for change, and nothing ever changes.  Why?  Because government isn’t the problem.  The issue at the core is NOT that we need better politicians in government but that we need godly coaches in the home!  My Dad was far from perfect, but he was a man of courage, character, and commitment to his family. Sadly, it wasn’t until after I had grown that Dad recommitted his life to the Lord.  Though my Dad was not a perfect father by any stretch of the imagination, he did point me in the right direction and coach me into a position to which I could be successful in life.

The best definition for a coach I found on Wikipedia:   "Etymologically, the English term “coach” is derived from a medium of transport that traces its origins to the Hungarian word kocsi meaning “carriage” that was named after the village where it was first made.[1] The first use of the term coaching to mean an instructor or trainer arose around 1830 in Oxford University slang for a tutor who "carries" a student through an exam.[2] Coaching thus has been used in language to describe the process used to transport people from where they are, to where they want to be.""

I would change it just a little bit:  Coaching is “the process used to transport people from where they are, to where God wants them to be.”

Put me in coach . . . I’m ready to play!

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